I am writing this blog because on June 14th 2010 I lost the love of my life. I have been writing through my grief and I felt if I shared my thoughts with the world; maybe I could help others who may be suffering through the grief of a tragic loss. I have found so many sites on-line that give people advice on how to get over it, that is not what I want to do; I just want to let people know they are not alone. I am here to help ease the pain as we go through it and let people know they are not crazy if they do not fit into the time limits of "normal" grieving. It is a very personal journey and we may never reach a destination; but I want to show you how the scenery changes as you travel.